As a parent, you have surely intended, in addition to putting it into practice out of love for your children, not to impose or mold an identity that you have designed for the minor, or in other words, to know them as they are and accept them, respecting them. Therefore:
- You allow your child to find their “talents” and strengths and help them discover their vocation.
- You are transmitting solid values and principles that guide their life.
- You do not overprotect them, facilitating their initiative, entrepreneurial capacity, and autonomy.
- You also avoid pseudo-tolerance and know how to say no and set limits.
- You have shown them communication, its importance, and you invite them with your example to carry it out. You, as an adult, manage your emotions and teach them to attend to theirs.
- You balance your own life to foster a balanced life in your child. You dedicate attention and time to them.
- You do not show fear in the face of mistakes, much less the feeling of disappointment if your child makes a mistake.
Everything I have just listed would be the most ideal condition for the good education and the best complete development of the child. But many times we may be surprised that in some aspects we do not know our child well enough, a fundamental pillar, either by default or by excess.
Perhaps you have heard someone close to you, or maybe yourself, say about your child “…I noticed something peculiar in the child, but others told me that I was exaggerating, that they were my quirks…” or also not understand what is happening with the minor because you observe that they present difficulties that you do not understand in terms of learning and that you also do not perceive an intervention according to your opinion by the school.
The number of scenarios that can occur regarding the minor are multiple, it is possible that you have noticed:
- A regression such as wetting the bed again
- Problems with sleep both in quality and quantity
- Withdrawal in behavior and communication
- Aggressive and oppositional behaviors
- Demotivation
- Fear of separation
- Knowing or discovering that your child has bullying problems
- Even suspecting that abuse may have occurred.
You are aware that there has been a significant loss in the family such as a death or a relevant change such as a divorce and in addition to intuiting how it has affected your child, you want to know what its specific impact is.
How to get to know your children better?
Currently there is a completely innovative tool that is díde familia, online, with methodology by observation and without the intervention of the child, which with the answer to a simple questionnaire, being able to to invite other adults who know the child to participate in it, whether from the family environment, as from the school, for example, in addition to the parents, some grandparent, the tutor or the teacher of a specific subject… and with very little time and once the questionnaire is completed, immediately, you can obtain a report of your child that offers you a complete profile of what their needs are (Emotions and behavior, Education and learning, Development and Social) as well as a report of guiding guidelines.
Take advantage of the opportunity offered by the quarantine lockdown to continue advancing in the real knowledge of your child and what they need without digressions through díde, being able to coordinate and communicate with people from the school environment and intervene with the support according to your child’s diversity.
10 reasons why the use of díde familia will bring you ample benefits for the well-being of your child
Keep this in mind, with little time spent completing the díde questionnaire you will achieve the following:
- Knowing your child’s needs much better and objectively.
- In case the results indicate it, it facilitates the option of seeking the appropriate professional for your child’s well-being and the elaboration of a diagnosis in a shorter time than without díde.
- Providing the results to the school environment and being able to intervene in coordination with it in a more effective and efficient way.
- Knowing how you can support your child to turn their difficulties into opportunities.
- Obviously, you can also verify that everything is fine with your child and in addition to having the satisfaction, you can reinforce so that everything continues like this.
- Immense benefit if you realize in time that your child may be suffering some type of bullying, whether face-to-face, cybernetic or other type.
- You can also become aware beyond suspicions that your child makes a bad use of technologies and that their study techniques or their work habits are lacking or scarce.
- Maybe you can admire yourself realizing that your child has high abilities when you consider that they were a “smart, listless and lazy” and what is worse the boy himself also thinks so.
- Your teenager not only has an obsession with their body image, with what they eat, with isolating themselves, but also with díde with high probability can get you out of the doubt of whether you have a eating disorder that should be treated and diagnosed by a specialist.
- You have heard and commented a lot about ASD (autism spectrum disorders), not all have been diagnosed early, surely because the symptoms were mild and functional, the minor was only defined as peculiar or “weird”, especially those that were previously called Asperger. If you discover that your child is in this case, you could help them more ideally to their characteristics.
The reasons why passing díde familia will benefit your child do not end here.
Do not be left with the doubt and with díde verify how your child’s mood and anxiety are.
Is your child one of those who gets angry easily or becomes demotivated? Perhaps their tolerance to frustration is very low.
Now we only have a break from which a great utility can be drawn to better know your child with díde, life not only continues beyond the harmfulness of a virus, when we return to the “normal rhythm”, with high probability, if before it was necessary to develop all the potentials, then it will be even more pressing and relevant to obtain the greatest fruits from the diversity of each one.
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