Bullying is a serious problem that affects children and adolescents worldwide, and Spain is no exception. In this article, we will discuss the incidence of bullying in Spain and provide families with the keys to detect it early. In addition, we will offer recommendations for action for parents who identify signs of bullying in their children. Bullying is any form of psychological, verbal, or physical abuse that occurs repeatedly between schoolchildren, both in the classroom, in the playground, and even outside the school. Aggressors are usually children or adolescents who seek to exert their power over others, while victims are usually more vulnerable children or adolescents.
There are different types of bullying, which can be classified according to the way the abuse occurs:
- Physical bullying: This is the most obvious type of bullying, and is characterized by physical aggression, such as blows, pushes, kicks, etc.
- Verbal bullying: This is the most common type of bullying, and is characterized by the use of hurtful, insulting, or humiliating words or phrases.
- Psychological bullying: This is the most subtle type of bullying, and is characterized by intimidation, manipulation, or social isolation of the victim.
The Incidence of Bullying in Spain
Bullying is a worrying phenomenon in Spain. According to a study by the Observatory of Children of the State Attorney General’s Office, 10% of students in Spain admit to having suffered bullying. For its part, according to data from the Anar Foundation, one in four primary and secondary school students has suffered bullying at some point in their lives. In any case, both figures represent that thousands of children and adolescents are experiencing bullying situations in their schools.
Bullying can have devastating consequences for children’s mental health and well-being. Among other problems, bullying can cause depression, anxiety, social isolation and even lead to suicidal thoughts in the minor. Therefore, it is crucial that parents are alert and know how to detect the early signs of bullying.
Keys to Detecting Bullying Early
Changes
Pay attention to changes in your child’s behavior. If he or she suddenly becomes more withdrawn, anxious, or shows signs of bad mood, these could be signs that he or she is experiencing bullying.
Academic Problems
Bullying can affect a child’s academic performance. If you notice a deterioration in their grades or interest in school, investigate further.
Physical or Material Problems
Bullied children may come home with unexplained bruises or lose their belongings. Pay attention to any evidence of physical damage or loss of personal items.
Changes in Social Relationships
If your child suddenly starts avoiding his friends or is reluctant to attend school events, this could be a sign that he is being bullied.
Expressions of Fear or Tendency to Avoid School
If your child mentions feeling afraid to go to school or makes excuses not to attend, you should inquire about the cause of this anxiety.
Recommendations for Action for Parents
If you suspect that your child is being bullied, it is essential to take action immediately. Here are some recommendations for action:
- Talk to your child: Communicate openly and understandingly with your child. Encourage him to share his experiences with you and assure him that you will support him.
- Contact the School: Contact the teachers, school counselors, or school principals to inform them about the situation. Collaboration with the school is essential.
- Keep a Record: Document any incidents of bullying that your child tells you about or that you have observed. This can be useful to present to school authorities.
- Promote Resilience: Help your child develop skills to cope with bullying. Teach him coping strategies and reinforce his self-esteem.
- Seek Professional Help: If the bullying persists or has a significant impact on your child’s mental health, consider seeking the help of a psychologist or counselor.
Bullying is a serious problem, but with the right attention and support, children can overcome it. Parents play a fundamental role in the early detection and prevention of bullying. Do not hesitate to take action if you suspect that your child is being bullied. Your support can make a difference in your child’s life and contribute to creating a safer school environment in Spain. We invite you to listen to our Doctor of Psychology, Nuria Ros, on La Tarde con Marina to expand on these guidelines and recommendations.
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